July 9, 2010

Sweet Baby Kara

This is going to be long...


Well, Kara is one week old today and she's been doing a great job figuring out how to live in this world. She has had her good days and nights and her not so good days and nights, but overall she's a fantastic baby. Getting her here wasn't too difficult. Here's how it happened.

Friday morning was a typical morning for me. I made dinner for that night, went to Walmart to get some more food for the week (we always seem to run out of food on my week on), watered the plants in the backyard and emptied the dishwasher. Nothing seemed too out of the ordinary. My back ached just a very little bit, but it had felt like that for the past few mornings and the pain always went away so I didn't think much of it. At 11:30 I hopped in the car and went to work. I saw no obvious reason not to. Well, once I got to work and stepped out of the car I realized my back hurt pretty bad. That was at 12:30. By 1:00 I was starting to feel really uncomfortable and called my Dr. At this point my back really hurt and the lower part of my abdomen also hurt, but not all over. The Dr. said that if I was having contractions every 5-7 minutes that I should come in to be checked. Yeah, I was feeling the pain every 5 or 6 minutes at that point and when I saw the "bloody show" when I went to the bathroom I decided that I needed to leave. I was out of there by 1:30. But being the stubborn person that I am I refused to let someone drive me down. I was thinking "then I'll have to come back up and get the car and that'll just be annoying".  So I drove from Murray to Provo in labor. Silly me. The last 10  minutes was pretty rough and all the cars around me were driving way too slow for me. Thankfully I had Trevor on the phone to help keep me calm.

Trevor met me at the hospital and by that point I could barely stand. That was just after 2:00. I got checked in and measured at 5 cm shortly thereafter. At this point I was really feeling the pain. The contractions were coming every 2 or 3 minutes and they HURT. I was definitely ready for the epidural and was happy to see the anesthesiologist when he came in just after 3:00. Getting the epidural was a little difficult because I had to hold still through each contraction while he was putting the catheter in my back. What made it even worse was that he had to do it twice. He saw a little blood on the first try and wanted to be absolutely certain he was in the right space so he did it again. And I swear that the worst contraction I had had up to that point decided to come right when he told me I had to hold perfectly still. But I'd do all that again because once the epidural kicked in I was feeling great.

Around 4:00 they came in and measured me at 8 cm and then at 5:00 the Dr. measured my at 9 cm. He said that he'd come back soon and break my water if it hadn't broken on it's own. Around 5:45 the nurse came in and asked if Dr. Wolsey had come in to break my water and I said that he had not so she checked me and said "Oh my. Her head is right here. We need to get Dr. Wolsey in here." Then she told me to keep that baby in there. They paged the Dr. and found out he was in surgery but thankfully Dr. Drewes was about ready to start his shift and had been at the hospital. He came in, they set me up, and we started pushing just barely after 6:00. It's such a weird sensation trying to push and "bear down" like they tell you to when you can't feel hardly anything. Anyway. I pushed and pushed and the Dr. kept saying that she had a big head for my little body. But he didn't want to do an episiotomy so he kind of just let me stretch out. Trevor was right there by my side helping hold my leg and hand every time I had to push and then at 6:36 she came into this world. I only had to push for 30 minutes! BOOOYAHH. That was awesome. It was also awesome to see my little baby for the first time. One of the first things I thought was "Wow, she already has a double chin. She's going to be a chunky monkey when she fills out". Then they put her on my tummy and she peed and pooped all over me. She was perfect. Just perfect. And still is.


















June 22, 2010

Last Stretch

37 weeks. Wowsers.

So, the doctor measured me at 3 cm dilated and 80% effaced at my appointment before last. This news really got my hopes up but I've been this way for...8 days now. Everyday I wake up wondering if today will be the day only to have my hopes smothered by the end of the day. I guess I should consider it a blessing though; I've been working for the last 7 days in Murray and didn't really want to go into labor at work. But let me tell you this: over the next 7 days I will do everything I can to get this baby here as soon as possible (besides caster oil. That just frightens me. Sorry, Mel, I don't think I'm that desperate yet).

1. Because I really don't want to go back to work in a week.
And
2. Because this last week the doctor estimated her weight to be in the upper 7 to 8 lb. range.

SERIOUSLY? He better be wrong or she needs to come out right now. If that's what she currently weighs (and from the way he said it it sounded like that's what he meant) I can only imagine that she'd be a 9 lb. baby if I actually do go to my due date (July 13). As much as I enjoy being pregnant I say No Thank You to that.

I know I don't have that much control over this so I'm trying not to be too anxious about it. But I still am. Plus, I'd like to be able to do stuff that requires bending over without grunting like a caveman. Things like tying my shoes, putting on pants and shorts, shaving, or just picking up the items that seem to magically fall on the floor in my presence. Also, as great as the last month or so has been for my posture I'd kinda like to be able to slouch again. I didn't do it all that much before, but when sitting up straight is your only option it starts to get old. All I want to do is be able to curve my back!

OK. I'm done complaining. Being pregnant has been relatively easy for me so I really shouldn't complain. Even though there are some definite discomforts that come with carrying a baby feeling your child move around inside you, especially when they get bigger, is quite amazing. I really can't wait to go through the whole birth experience and be able to meet my baby. She's going to be absolutely perfect.

June 4, 2010

Buffalo Part II

The rest of my time in Buffalo was spent watching movies, making baby bling, and visiting Niagara Falls.

A note on the baby bling: my sister is super crafty and has started making the cutest baby jewelry. Seriously, this stuff is cute. I arrived with no baby stuff and left with 3 little bracelets, 4 adorable necklaces (the necklaces are for when she's a bit older), and a ton of cute clothes. My sister is the best. Thanks to Melissa, my little girl is going to be the most hip baby out there. We are starting her on the girly stuff so young that there's no chance of her ever being a tomboy.

Buffalo was just so much fun. Being able to spend time with Melissa and her family really made me wish that we lived closer and could hang out all the time.


Beached whale!


Before Maid of the Mist: happy and adorable

After Maid of the Mist: a little upset but still oh so adorable